Saturday, November 6, 2010

Emptying the nest. . .



Ahhhhh. . . you either dread this moment or you look forward to this moment. . . but just like death and taxes the 'empty nest' phase of your life will certainly happen.

The 'old man' and I cleared out the roost, so to speak, this past August--when we dropped our youngest birdling off at the Missionary Training Center in  Utah--where he would be embarking on a 2 year stint of service in the Philippines.

We were of mixed minds about this next phase of our lives. . .We would miss our youngest son terribly. . . and we would come back to an empty house.  Hmmmmmm. . . missing youngest son was bad. . . . but having an entire house to ourselves was. . . GOOD!  No responsibilities!  No worries!  This wasn't going to be so bad after all. . . (shhhhh!  Don't want our kids to think we don't like them or something)

Getting together with middle son and his wife who lived in Utah was great fun:


As well as oldest son who lived there too:




Middle son's wife even made a cake to mark the occasion for the departure of youngest son:



Visiting Bridal Veil Falls and other scenic places was on our to do list:











We took a hike at one point (of course I don't remember where--but there was a flat rock place where folks built all kinds of 'talismans' to mark their territory.  You know, like 'Elroy was here'  However--since our family is quite competitive--we had to build the tallest one.  (as well as the coolest):



And when in Rome. . . . well, the next stop off speaks for itself:



Since youngest son was going to be giving selfless service for the next two years--we figured we best get all the 'debauchery' in while we could.

It was early August--so it was HOT as all get out--but the flora and fauna were AMAZING:





Getting youngest son ready for the 'drop-off' was quite the event.  And last photo ops with our son were a MUST HAVE.  After all--we will not see this great young man for two years!  Oh my!






The ole' man and I were quite sad to see our youngest child go:


While middle son and his wife look pretty pleased with themselves:



This is it! We are at the Missionary training center and actually dropping our son off:






And this is the final picture I got of my youngest baby waving goodbye as he took off into the sunset.  (Or maybe into a big honking campus building)


That's right before I threw down the camera and embraced him and plastered him with hugs and kisses and embarrassed the crap out of him.  

Then I picked up the camera. . . and made the trip back to home and hearth with my hubby (sans son)

We do miss that funny guy around the place.  It is a lot quieter. . . but we're leaving a light on for him, raiding his room, and eating everything in the fridge ourselves.  Don't worry about us J-Man. . . we'll scrape by until you return and regale us with all your adventures.  And I AM enjoying your laptop!  As well as all the 'toys' you left behind. . .


For now. . . we are justing going to have to figure out how to play in our empty nest. . . 

2 comments:

Wes said...

Now that y'alls nest is empty you should turn Josh's room into an extension of Sam and Max and Des's play room. I'm sure he'll love that when he comes home.

Showmethesale said...

Shhhhhh. . . don't say anything--but plans are already in the works.

And you don't even wanna know what we did to your room. . .